Pray for a caregiver

It can happen in an instant. A fall, an ignored symptom, an accident. Just when you felt like every aspect of your life was finally in sync, the unexpected happens and a loved one is suddenly in need of care. You jump into action without even being asked. You freely and willingly sacrifice your time, sleep, and even feelings.

It's often a thankless job; one that can drain you both physically and mentally. There are times when you feel like your sense of self is completely lost and your identity is wrapped up solely in the life of the person you're caring for.

There aren't enough hours in the day. There aren't any sick days or vacation days. Holidays are double time without pay. You feel stressed, overwhelmed, and in some instances, like there's no end in sight. If you start to feel sorry for yourself, you feel guilty for having any feelings like that so you choke back the tears, and carry on.

I've been the caregiver and the one being cared for. It's not easy on either side of the coin, but we all get through. However, if you know a caregiver, there are things you can do to help.
 - give them a reprieve
 - drop them a note that lets them know someone sees how hard they work and that it's appreciated
 - offer to run some of the errands, or to take the person to doctors' visits
 - let them know that you're there for them if they need to vent, or a shoulder to cry on.
 - pray for them. There's a chance that they are so busy and so drained, that they don't take the time to pray for themselves. Pray that they receive strength, encouragement, hope.

Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 

1 Peter 5:7